I’m a constant admirer of your beautiful web site. I visit your site often to obtain information. My question has to do with better understanding if what I am experiencing is a prostate orgasm. I’m 39, 5’9, 170# very fit muscled up active guy with a very intense sexual drive. Nearly every day, I mount a large thick 9″ dildo attached to a fuck machine and make love to myself by fucking my mancunt for 45min. to an hour. The pleasure is insanely pleasurable to say the least. I also a few times a week get fucked by mancock which I love even more. When I dildo fuck myself with the machine, I’d like to know if what I’m feeling is a prostate orgasm. When I’m being fucked, I usually have the machine setting on a slow setting. I do this because I can be fucked for a longer duration before my anal muscles contract creating an intense feeling that is many times too intense for me to continue (its not painful just so intensely pleasurable that I must stop for a minute to let my anal canal relax before I go for more fuck. The slow machine setting usually limits the anal contractions while at the same time giving me intense fuck pleasure. Are these anal muscle contractions a prostate orgasm? Does a prostate orgasm require fluid from my cock? I love sex and I’m always thinking of new ways to enjoy it. On my next trip to London, I would love to try and schedule a private session with you. Thanks Seb for any information/advice you may be able to offer Eric
Seb Cox Replies: Eric, many thanks for your fascinating email. In connection with prostate/anal orgasms when I first wrote about it, I wrote of my experience of having a huge ejaculation in one blast. Since then lots of men have added their experiences, no two the same, so it’s different for everyman. In relation to your anal contractions, some people call these super o’s, or dry orgasms. I suppose the best way to describe what I understand as an anal/prostate orgasm is having an orgasm from prostate stimulation alone, without even touching your cock. Hope that helps, a big hug, seb cox
I am a happily married Bi guy who has experienced prostate orgasms from both my wife and also one of my regular fuck buddies. On holiday this year with my wife we went to Portugal and after having a day sunbathing went back to the room and had a shower together and whilst in the shower shave each others pubes off, from there we went onto the bed and had a 69 then my wife told me to sit on her face. she starting probing my little hole with her wet finger than open my butt cheeks and started licking my hole (I nearly shot my load at this point)she held my arse cheeks open and started deep probing with her tongue and must have gone in at least an inch, she then told me to bend over and to my shock had hidden under the pillows a strap on double dildo. She inserted into herself then slowly with the aid of some KY entered me, the initial shock soon changed to wave after wave of orgasm as she pounded my arse until I could cope no longer. The bed by this time was covered in the most cum I have ever produced.’What a holiday fuck’. One of the regular quys I see ‘leo‘ is an absolute anal master, a few weeks ago I went over and we watched some porn then went into his bedroom where I bent over and was fingered then licked and then had an 8” dildo inserted and without my cock being touched I shot my load over 2feet over his bed, I was so knackered afterwards I laid on the bed with the dildo still inserted up to the hilt until i Shot again. Wow….. Andy
hi, i too have experienced a similar thing. i was lying on the bed with my partner and he lubed his finger up and inserted into my arse. he continued doing this for aprox 20 mins and i was loving every min of it. after some time we think he found my prostate. it was such a nice feeling that he worked his finger harder and harder, turning his finger around inside of me. after about a further 10 mins i had a sort of orgasm, it was a great feeling, not like a normal orgasm after wanking off but when i came my sacred juice sort of oozed out of me. we have tried to do the same thing again, i have even tried to do it myself. if i am lying on my back and insert a finger in my ass which is the best way to find the prostate. hope you can help. thanks,
It was a year ago or so when I used a battery operated dildo, quite normal size, and found “THE SPOT”. I couldn’t believe the sensation, my cock got wet, pre-cum was all over the place and without touching my cock I had a sensational orgasm. I’m having my boyfriend using his fingers now as well as my trusted dildo. Took me a long time to get it right, but now I hit the spot!
I was positioned in front of a mirror on my knees, leaning back with one hand resting behind me. This, by accident put the dildo in perfect contact with my prostate, and after a while I felt this incredible sensation which was unlike the build up to a normal orgasm, being much more intense. I continued to ride the dildo, and soon was hit by the most electric orgasm I had ever encountered. My cock, while not limp, was far from being fully stiff, but it gushed out a liquid that was not sperm, but a bit like pre-cum. After that experience, I would regularly cum this way, multiple times in one session, and have done ever since. Only recently I have begun exploring my Bi side, and getting fucked by guys. I have been with about 10 different guys in the last 12 months, but none has managed to make me cum. Until last week. I met this cute asian guy in a gay sauna, and he was quite an exceptional fuck. Not particulaly well endowed, but boy did he know how to use it. I was being fucked doggy style, and I found that if I raised myself up a little, rather than being head down on the mattress, I could feel the same sensations that I got before. In no time I was screaming in a most wonderful orgasm which caught him a bit by suprise, and he blew his load inside me at the same time. It was truly sensational, and one of the highlights of my long sexual career.